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The Maelstrom of the Midlife Crisis

Adolescence is one of the critical stages in teenage development. It is a transition period from childhood to maturity that greatly affects the behavior of the youth. Hormonal imbalance produces a certain odd feeling and those who have struggled tend to be disoriented. Though I was not aware then, I was becoming irritable when passing through this stage. I could also recall that some of my contemporaries, not to mention my two brothers, have gone astray during this period. Perhaps my Christian values have helped me surpass this confusing stage positively.

But there is another challenge along the way, and certainly I’m heading that direction- the midlife crisis. Instead of allowing fear cloud the passageway, I have enough time to prepare for this spiritual journey. It is a great privilege that at this early stage I have become aware about this distant hump because, as youth pastor in one way or another, it will affect how I drive my ministry.

At certain point, the company of spouse, ministry partner, accountability group, prayer partner, etc. could be indispensable, but the holy presence of the Father will sustain us through. I am confident that as I abide in Him he will abide in me. I take advantage of this formative season to strengthen my faith and develop intimate relationship with God.

It is also my hope that as I continue to struggle in becoming like Christ, the Spirit of God will comfort me and convict me to completely surrender before the Lordship of Christ. Jesus has triumphed death and was resurrected to life, and I know I will overcome that stage and will stand out in victory.

“The lord is a refuge for the oppressed,
a stronghold in times of trouble.
Those who know your name will trust in you,
for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you.”
(Psalm 9:9-10)

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